A topic that comes up very early in our 8 week online IOP. How do I stop acting out cold turkey? What sort of blocks should I put in place to avoid temptation?

My recommendation is to first catalog everything about triggers. 95/5 rule. 95% of acting out occurs under specific conditions. I have...

The Challenge

 One of the most difficult obstacles in sex addiction recovery is guiding a client toward full therapeutic disclosure while ensuring that the partner is prepared to receive it. Ideally, the disclosure process is trauma-informed, structured, and facilitated by trained specialists who u...

This program is 4 years in the making.

Next Gen Sex Addiction Recovery 

We are looking for ONE partner in each metropolitan area to join us!

Excuses, justifications, black and white reasoning. Breaking Denial is, as you know, the bedrock upon which all future ecovery efforts will stand.

This is the most common reason that I hear from CSATs: the client can't afford it.

There are at least 10 categories of denial, which a sex addict...

"What is your WHY?"

Doing some reading on marketing, I kept coming back to this phrase.

As much as I dread marketing speak like this, I've realized that this concept might help center me.

My ADHD brain needs routine and grounding; clarity on why I would prefer to live with intentionality. 

If ...

Welcome to our blog, and my first post. I am hoping that this blog becomes  a resource for people in recovery.

Please note that ANYTHING posted here is simply OPINION, and not the gospel!

I believe that we all "do recovery" at our own pace, and learn the lessons that we learn, just as we are ...

4 Ways to Live Sobriety (video below)

For whatever reason I love talking sobriety with my buddies in recovery. Sobriety has given me so many things! One of the one's that I value the most is meaningful, deep, relationships, where I am able to talk about ANYTHING without fear of judgement.