8‑Week Intensive | Therapist‑Integrated Online IOP (Sex & Porn Addiction)

8‑Week Intensive · 2 Groups/Week + Weekly 30‑min 1:1

Therapist‑Integrated · Online

8‑Week Intensive for Sex & Porn Addiction

An accelerated path that keeps your therapist in the lead while we supply the structure between sessions: 2 small‑group meetings per week and one 30‑minute individual session weekly, plus daily accountability tools.

See the 8-Week Plan Start Application

Small cohorts (4–8) Partner‑aware support Daily AI‑assisted structure

Stop White‑Knuckling

Stability through structured days, targeted tools, and clinician‑guided focus so change sticks outside the therapy hour.

Repair Intimacy

Reduce secrecy and re‑build trust with partner‑sensitive practices that align with your therapist’s plan.

Know Your Triggers

Clarity on patterns via daily check‑ins and an evolving personal map (IFS‑informed) that guides interventions.

What you get over 8 weeks

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2 small‑group sessions per week (90–120 min) focused on skills, accountability, and real‑life integration.
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One 30‑minute 1:1 session per week with a recovery coach or clinician to personalize your plan.
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Daily structure: Kitchen Table & DSAP micro‑routines with AI‑assisted prompts and progress tracking.
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Partner‑aware guidance to reduce chaos and support trust repair.
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Clinician‑integrated coordination—we scaffold the work; your therapist stays the clinical lead.
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Relapse response plan and safety protocols if you wobble.

Weekly Rhythm

Touchpoint	What happens
Group A	Skills, accountability, parts‑work framing, peer support.
Group B	Integration lab: triggers, routines, practice, partner awareness.
1:1 (30m)	Personalized plan, barriers, next steps, relapse‑proofing.
Daily	Kitchen Table & DSAP micro‑routines; brief check‑ins.

Exact times vary by cohort; we’ll match you to the best fit during onboarding.

Everything Included in the Intensive

Your 8‑week cohort includes access to our complete psychoeducation library. Overlapping lessons are de‑duplicated and sequenced for you inside the Intensive. Below is the full catalogue you can reference anytime.

Pre‑Contemplative / Contemplative Track — “Am I a Sex Addict?” + “Introduction to Sexual Compulsivity” (Unified)

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WELCOME! Watch this FIRST, 10 Tips for Success
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Sex Addiction: The Complete Guide + Quiz
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Your Sex Addiction Plan / Review
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12‑Step “S” Groups: Differences, What to Do Now, Tools Moving Forward
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NoFap? Let’s Try YES FAPP

Sex Addiction 201 — Orientation, Baseline, Denial, Proven Tools

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Watch First, Disclaimer, Josh’s Story, Charlene’s Story, If you’re already in 12‑Step
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Get a Baseline: why/ how to measure, baseline exercise
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Denial: Gaslighting Myself!?, $25M Cost, Reflection Prompts
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Proven Tools: 10 Elements of Success, Critical Tools, Short Game / Long Game
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12‑Step Fit: How to pick a fellowship, how/why groups change behavior

3‑Stage Model Library — Stage 1 · Stage 2 · Stage 3

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Stage 1: Dependence & Withdrawal, Alter Ego (The Addict), Shame Cycle, Who Becomes Addicted?, Breaking the Cycle, Writing Prompts
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Stage 2: Lifestyle Change, Behavioral Evidence, Gaslighting, Manipulation Mechanics, Intensity vs Intimacy, Spiritual/Emotional Bankruptcy, Therapy’s Role, Review Prompts
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Stage 3: All Pain/No Pleasure, Intervention, Final‑stage Lifestyle, Fear & Shame, The Child Comes Forth, Suicidal Thoughts*, Solutions, Healthy Dependence, Giving Back, Writing Assignments
*Crisis resources and safety planning are provided; this program is not an emergency service.

Recovery Start Starters — Foundations preview

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Program Overview, 40‑Day Focus intro, Core Dialogue Prompts & Meditations
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Systems: The Addictive System · The Recovery System · Systems Transformer (Carnes)
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Exercises: Cybersex, Eroticized Rage, Positive Sexual Focus, 3 Circles, PCI, 90‑Day Focus

Screening Test for Sexual Compulsivity (SAST‑R)

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What is the SAST‑R, How it’s scored, Take the SAST‑R, About your results, Book a 1:1 overview

Week 1 Prep & Policies

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Program Policies, Expectations, Therapist Requirement, Baseline Setup

Guides & Audio Library

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12‑Page Patrick Carnes Guide & Resources
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Sex Addiction: The Complete Guide (Audio), 3 Stages of Addiction (Audio)

What Not to Do — Relapse risk list

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50 Things that Keep Sex Addicts in Addiction

Have a referring therapist? We’ll align lesson sequencing with your treatment plan and share summaries on request (with consent).

The 8‑Week Plan (Accelerated)

Weeks 1–2 · Stabilize & Map

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Full orientation, boundaries, devices, environments.
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Trigger & ritual deconstruction; immediate counter‑rituals.
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Parts map (IFS‑informed): Critical Parent, Teen, Inner Child, Loving Parent, Witness.
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Partner‑aware communication starter kit.

Weeks 3–4 · Structure & Accountability

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Daily Kitchen Table & DSAP flow locked in.
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Micro‑habits for high‑risk windows; tech guardrails.
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Body‑based regulation (polyvagal‑informed basics).
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Honest accountability without shame loops.

Weeks 5–6 · Repair & Repattern

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Intimacy repair practices that don’t rush disclosure.
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Values‑aligned routines & a realistic weekly cadence.
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Relapse learning loop; rapid stabilization protocol.
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Shame → self‑compassion pathways.

Weeks 7–8 · Integration & Next Stage

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Solidify your personal playbook; partner‑aware guardrails.
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Stress testing: travel, conflict, loneliness, celebrations.
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Post‑intensive plan: aftercare groups and therapist goals.
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Measurable progress review and handoff notes for your therapist.

Great Fit If You…

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Are ready for an accelerated, hands‑on structure.
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Have a therapist (or plan to work with one) and want stronger in‑between support.
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Can attend two groups weekly and a 30‑minute 1:1.
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Want a partner‑conscious approach without chaos.

Not a Fit If You…

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Need detox, inpatient, or 24/7 supervision.
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Cannot commit to 8 weeks of consistent attendance.
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Prefer passive learning over active change.

Program Investment

$4,450 for 8 weeks

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All group & 1:1 sessions
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Daily structure tools & check‑ins
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Partner‑aware guidance
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Therapist coordination

Apply Now Questions? Read FAQ

Insurance: We provide superbills for potential out‑of‑network reimbursement for eligible services. Coverage varies by plan.

Upcoming Cohorts

Cohort	Starts	Group Times*
November	1st Week of Month	Tue 7:30 am & Thu 7:30 am ET

*Sample times; we’ll match you to the best‑fit cohort after your application.

Employer benefits, clergy support, or sponsor assistance may offset costs. Ask during your call.

What clients and clinicians say

Client

8‑Week Graduate

“The daily structure and two groups kept me honest. I finally stopped cycling between crisis and denial.”

Referring CSAT

Partner Clinician

“They never replace the therapist—they make my work land between sessions. Integration is the difference.”

Client

8‑Week Graduate

“It’s intense but humane. The partner‑aware approach saved our home while I learned new patterns.”

FAQs

Do you replace my therapist?

No. Your therapist remains the clinical lead. We provide the in‑between structure and coordinate as needed.

How big are groups?

4–8 members. Intimate enough for safety, large enough for momentum.

Is the 1:1 really only 30 minutes?

Yes. It’s focused, tactical, and designed to keep your weekly plan moving. Longer add‑ons can be arranged if needed.

Can my partner be involved?

Yes—through partner‑aware guidance and optional check‑ins coordinated with your therapist’s approach.

Do you take insurance?

We’re a private‑pay program and provide superbills for possible out‑of‑network reimbursement for eligible services. Coverage varies by plan.

How we work with your therapist

We coordinate goals and progress, share summary notes on request, and align our weekly focus with your treatment plan. We’re the scaffolding; your clinician remains the foundation.

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Clear roles to avoid duplication
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Consent‑based information sharing
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Measurable weekly targets

Clinical Safety: If you’re experiencing acute crisis, suicidal thoughts, or risk of harm, call your local emergency number or go to the nearest ER. This program is not an emergency service.

Mari A. Lee, MA, LMFT, CSAT-S, CPTT-S, MBATT-CS

Author: "Facing Heartbreak: Steps to Recovery for Partner's of Sex Addicts"

"Joshua and Charlene Lewis bring a wealth of experience and unwavering integrity to the field of addiction recovery. Their commitment to supporting both clients and fellow professionals in this critical work reflects their deep dedication to fostering healing and growth in this specialized area."

Anna Fenton - CPTT, CMAT, CSAT

"The Return to Intimacy" IOP is a collaborative program that every CSAT needs. The IOP provides daily support and accountability that's hard to achieve in weekly therapy sessions alone. This program truly puts the ‘intensive’ into ‘intensive outpatient’ treatment, offering an affordable alternative to inpatient rehab for clients who are committed but time-strapped."

Bryan Palmer LCSW-QS, CSAT, EMDR

"As a CSAT, I’ve had the good fortune of referring clients to Josh’s 9-week virtual e-hab program—an ideal option for those needing intensive support but unable to commit to residential or IOP care. The program includes both individual coaching and group sessions, all delivered online. Josh and his team are responsive, professional, and collaborative with referred clients. His program is innovative, accessible, and most importantly, delivers meaningful results."

Keith M - Professional Athlete

Chicago, Il

"They give you the recipe, ingredients, and bake the cake with you over and over again until you get it. I can now bake my own recovery cake. I have my life back. It takes practice: falling down, getting up, and re-applying the tools with a experiential knowledge. The system helped me develop "smart feet", that keep me in recovery."

Javier L - Attorney

Miami, Fl

"These guys saved my marriage, carrier, but most importantly they saved my life. Not only are they masters in the field of sex addiction, they seem to intuitively know what challenges the client faces and communicates what to do, in a no nonsence fashion. Brutally honest, I love this about them. Run, don't walk!"

Giovanni B - Sales Consultant

New York, NY

"I entered into Charlene's group not knowing if it would help. I felt I had tried everything, and NOTHING was working. I am amazed at what I have learned about myself, my addiction, and the new strategies that I can use to stay sober. Shame and powerlessness have given way to a new way of living, with dignity and true intimacy. A big thank you to both of them just doesn’t cover it."

Nickolas (New Jersey, USA)

"I'm grateful for the help of Josh & Charlene in their 9 week intensive Recovery from Sexual Addiction program. The group sessions done by video conferencing were interactive, collaborative and exactly the kick start I needed to be put on the pathway to sobriety."

Joseph (Toronto, Canada)

“Josh is extremely knowledgeable, insightful and compassionate. My journey with Josh not only gave me incredible insight on my addiction, it also allowed me to understand my past, my present challenges and what is possible in my future.”

Roger (Miami, Fl)

"My intensive outpatient experience with Return 2 Intimacy was a necessary step in my road to recovery. They guided our through “Facing the shadows” chapter by chapter while sharing our exercise results was very powerful. I came out of the program with a deeper understanding of addiction, and left very well equipped to lead an amazing life in recovery."

Braden W (Tampa, USA)

I have been working with Charlene and Josh for almost 10 years now. They have given me significant insight into my addiction, helped me to gain sobriety and led me into a new life. I do not know where I would be if I did not have them as part of my recovery. I am indebted to them and the program for not only the survival but also the success of my marriage, relationship with my children, my career as a physician and my life serenity. I highly endorse them both.

Victor L (Toronto, Canada)

"After years of difficulties with my wife, with the help of Josh and Charlene's program I’ve have started to rekindle my relationship with my wife, and we’re doing better than in a long time. I Highly recommend the IOP!"

Charles (Hong Kong)

"Going to rehab taught me the tools for recovery, but soon afterwards I left them tucked away like a display case, never to be touched again. I was overwhelmed. Josh helped me use the right tools for the right occasion, because he gets me, and cares about me. I am experiencing a profound change in my recovery and my relationship with my partner on a level I had not felt from other therapies."